Left Photo Credit to: disorderly / 123RF Stock Photo
Last year I published a blog post telling people the 7 reasons why some of their comments will never get published. It was a great list, and I basically told them I need to have some kind of a face by the comment. I also said, a serious blogger will have a decent avatar, because they’ll understand…
How Important it is
for Their Business !
One of the people commented was this girl (or a guy?) by the (nick)name of Solitaire, who said:
Seriously… This is a reason?
NO I don’t want to use a service that I don’t like… NO, Gravatars are stupid… I don’t like them… And NO i don’t want to spent 2 minutes for sign up on another service just that you like to have a photo on your comments… Also it takes only 2 minutes to register on a f%$^$$@^$@ shitty mailing list that send you viagra mails… Why don’t you register there also…
And yes I like to comment on blogs and NOT using a Gravatar…
Next time start deleting comments that are not from gmail because they only need 2 minutes to set up their account…Why don’t they have a gmail account if they are serious bloggers…
Feel free to delete my comment it if you like…
(Note: the comment has not been edited. I published it here exactly how it was written.)
There was no face to go with that comment, but… I actually went ahead and approved it. The reason why is… I wanted to show you the kind of whining you can expect from people who don’t want to take a moment to comply with the ground rules. Let me ask you this:
You don’t go to McDonald’s and complain about the color of the uniforms the employees are wearing or the size of your burger, do you? If you don’t like the place, you’re welcome not to eat there. They’ll survive without you. They have their rules they’re going to respect, and you either comply with them or…
Go Somewhere Else !
The same is true here. The Bad Blogger is my blog and I’ll run it however I see fits the community best. If you don’t like the way it’s managed, you’re welcome not to visit it, not to follow me, and never come back. Also, quite simply, if you don’t like the fact you need a Gravatar to get your comment approved, then…
Don’t Comment !
There are tons of other blogs for you to get involved with, and they might have a different (more lenient) set of rules, but these are my rules and they’re here for a reason. You might not like them, or think they’re dumb, but that’s OK, because…
It’s Impossible to Make
Everyone Happy !
I don’t mean to offend you, but, again, if you don’t like the way things are run over here, there are dozens upon dozens of blogs that are run differently. Choose what you like, and…
Stick With it !

Above Photo Credit to: disorderly / 123RF Stock Photo
Ok, let’s talk about Avatars for a moment. Personally I don’t care if you use Gravatar or any other service that provides avatars as you do your online business. The solution you use is irrelevant to me. The reason I recommend Gravatar is they’re very efficient, and easy to use. You set it up once, and your avatar of choice follows you pretty much everywhere you go. It’s a neat, little service. What’s important here is…
You Have a Face
People Can Attach
Your Writing to !
You see, as you probably know, because I have talked about this in the past, people like to buy from other people they know, like and trust. I’ll tell you even more… People’s time is valuable, and they won’t even take the time to go through your free content, if…
They Don’t Know,
Like and
Trust You !
That’s why so many marketers out there are having such a hard time getting their free reports, white papers, viral videos or other forms of free content distributed. It might not cost money, but it costs time, and as you know…
You Can’t Buy
Your Time Back !
Once it’s gone, you don’t get it back. If you’re a faceless blogger (or commenter) you’re going to struggle online, because people will have a hard time getting to know, like and trust you. Whipping out your credit card and making a payment, or even just following a blog, as I said, is difficult enough, and if you don’t do everything you possibly can to make it easier for your visitors and prospective clients…
They’ll Go to Someone
Who Will !
So, for me, there really is no debate. Your comments, your blogs, your entire online business, no matter what it is you do, needs a face. It needs a symbol. Sure, a logo is great and it does awesome things for your branding, but it’s terribly impersonal. Big bloggers like Shoemoney, Copyblogger or John Chow know this and that’s why they use services like Gravatar to get more trust and real feel in the community.
They Even Go
Much Further !
If you look at how popular and established bloggers work, you’ll notice they try to put their face on everything they do. Not just in their avatars. You’ll see it in their videos, on their products, in the majority of their promotional materials.
Why ?
Because they know how important it is for people to deal with someone who’s more than just an email address. So… Again, if you want to comment on the Bad Blogger, you’ll need an Avatar. I might make an exception to this rule here and there, but that won’t happen often. If you’re not willing to take the time to set one up, don’t comment.
I Will Not
Be Offended !
Show You Face,

Also Known As “The Bad Face Blogger”


















{ 24 comments… read them below or add one }
Twitter: realtimetricks
September 12, 2012 at 11:19 pm
Good… I like your Iam what Iam nature!
One thing from my side I would like to advise you. I don’t know if you are going to approve my comment or not but… I really want to advice you this, if you give importance to models (nude) image so MUCH then let me tell you the choice of choosing right image you were doing for your content before was superb but now you are just focusing on nudity and not on the HOTTEST babes. Try finding the girls you were attaching your content with earlier. These images are not worth to watch I just skip them without even giving a single second look.
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September 13, 2012 at 12:40 am
Thanks for the advice, but this images are not what you call “Nudity” they are call “scantily clad models or women” whatever you like to call. Nudity means wearing nothing and those can only found in porn magazines such as playboy or pornographic sites.

Well… one advice for you… read more and study more because you have yet to understand the importance of using scantily clad models as it had been use since I was even born… and people just can’t face the fate that… they are for eye attraction or you can call it “attention grabbing”
You might think is not right but just look at the news-stand… how many magazine front cover are using scantily clad models… almost 90% and does those magazine topic had anything to do with those models? No… but why they still use?
Answer is simple… one word “Attention”…
Can’t face the fate this is true… well… you are not alone… there are many others who can’t face the fate…
But if you want breakthrough in life you just have to break the rules
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September 15, 2012 at 12:46 am
Well I agree with Irfan,Wong,you always use same type of bikini models,don’t take this in wrong way that how a newbie like me can teach you,but its just an advice.You are also right wong these types of Images attract your readers but they should be relevant to your content,not that same bikini models all the time.
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September 20, 2012 at 10:54 pm
If you still consider yourself a newbie you always a newbie, if you want to progress and move forward you need to understand what the real world is doing, is not about what you know… remember this: Is about what you don’t know and how you are going to accept and learn in order to move closer to what you really want to be.
If you always think “newbie advice”… or think “same bikini models” you always stay at what you think… and that is why… people fail because people stop learning new things.
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Twitter: realtimetricks
September 22, 2012 at 10:04 pm
You didn’t got my point. I was not pointing to your pictures I was telling that the pics you were using before for the articles were much more appealing than these pictures.
You should check your old posts dude. Those are the pictures attracted me towards your blog. And helped me stayed here with all its content.

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September 23, 2012 at 12:09 am
Well… I’m not sure which old posts you are referring, but I think I had been using images of women wearing less for quite a long time.

Not sure about you… but if you are complaining about the images I use… then you shouldn’t be here because I knew you had been a regular reader for my blog… I believe you know the kind of words and images I will use… so I’m really really not sure about what’s wrong with the images I had been using.
If images I use seem to offend you, well… you are free to move
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Hey Wong,
Here is your another reader who has commented and you have brought up in the limelight to let other readers know what actually one wants in his/her blog.
I think the better idea is to make a a pop up to every new reader or may be a notification which can tell them the rules or regulations before commenting on a blog.Commenting on a blog is not a one time approach it will go as far as one is passionate about it.
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September 21, 2012 at 10:39 pm
To tell you the truth I like the idea of the pop up, but until now I had yet to heard any plugin that does that… may be someone needs to create it

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I am glad you liked my idea Wong,but it has made me think does really there is no plugin out there in the market??
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September 24, 2012 at 10:21 pm
Not sure… I had yet to hear any news on this sort of plugin…
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I would really agree on the things you have shred in your blog Wong! If people doesn’t want to be on your site, then why do we need to force them in the first place. Face everything and become fearless about it.
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September 21, 2012 at 10:42 pm
Well there are some people who just can’t listen or even learn… they just want the fun of poking other people’s comment section, seriously do they have a life?
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I see how you feel! Actually its gravatar is not important in a blog but the information that the blog has to offer and that is why blogging is not just a way to backlink our website it is also a way to learn from someone and communicate to other bloggers. If a person is posting this kind of comment then it is just distracting you.
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September 21, 2012 at 10:46 pm
Yes, is really really distracting not just me but the whole of other commenter to and though I agree gravatar may not be the most important of all… but it is one of those important ones

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September 20, 2012 at 8:43 am
Yeah, setting up a gravtar took less than 2 minutes, so people without gravatar are not serious about blogging. But how about a gravatar without the face but the icon instead? (Like Me
)
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September 21, 2012 at 10:46 pm
Having an image is always better then nothing at all… I guess I had answer your question
but still I prefer a face 

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Sure exposing your face is fine, but what if you do not wish to be attached to the comments you leave for business reasons.
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September 21, 2012 at 10:48 pm
Well, I had yet to experience signing contract without seeing the other person’s face… unless you are doing “drugs”
If someone do not wish… why comment in the first place, right?
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Again, I will have to appreciate your hot pictures. Anyway about your post, how about a gravatar without the face but the icon instead?
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September 27, 2012 at 5:53 am
Thanks for appreciating the hot pictures and using an icon is always better then nothing at all, but honestly and seriously using Mona Lisa image is totally an insult to the artist and also to fans around the world that appreciate the art, so please change your image… and that’s my advice to you…
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Thanks for appreciating the hot pictures and using an icon is always better then nothing at al
I know of a few sites that will not allow comments that don’t have a gravatar image. There are probably more of them that do this that I am aware of. Ultimately it is up to the blog site owner if they want to do this. When sites do this it can be difficult to make visitors aware of this though. I know a lot of sites to have some form of comment policy, but getting people to actually read them before they comment is another story. Even if you put it right in front of someone they still don’t read it for some reason.
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Yeah right!setting up a gravtar took less than two minutes.and in my view face is most important to became famous on online business.
Thanks you lot.
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Hi Wong
It is always a pleasure to read your posts both for the eyes and the brain.i agree everybody should have a picture of the self when they are commenting. If they don’t to me it just makes me feel they are trying to hide behind something. Your right it doesn’t take long to do and then it is done.
Thanks lee