Some time ago, about seven years to be exact, an average guy, just like you and me, put out a book called…

The Game:
Penetrating the Secret Society of
Pick-up Artists !

That book became a smashing hit, pretty much the moment it was published.

Why ?

Because it taught average men how to pick up really hot women. I mean, it was literally possible to read through it, and before you knew it, you’re able to get pretty much any woman out there, no matter how hot looking she was or how intimidated you were to talk to her.

It was wild !

The interesting thing (that you’re probably not going to believe) is that Neil Strauss, who’s the author of the book, used to be really shy with women, until he came across the pickup artist community and became…

Completely
Fascinated By it !

Pretty soon, he became a very well known and universally respected PUA (aka Pick Up Artist)  himself and was able to land pretty much any date he wanted. Now, I know you might be sitting there, thinking why on earth I am telling you all this? I mean… after all, this is…

Not a Dating or
Relationship Social Site,
is it ?

Well, I told you about “The Game,” because what it teaches can be very easily applied to Internet Marketing, and blogging in particular. You see, inside that book, there’s a theory described called…

“Peacocking !”

Now, in case you don’t know, peacocking is where you put on something outrageous before you go pickup women, just to get yourself noticed. It can be anything, really. A wild looking pair of shoes, a top hat with goggles on it (I’ve actually seen that one used), a crazy color suit…anything. There are no rules to what you can do as long as it…

Differentiates You
From the Other Guys
At the Bar !

The point is that you don’t want to look like everyone else and you do want to make it very easy for women to approach you if they want to. Nothing easier than walking up and saying:

“Hey, What’s Up With the Hat ?”

Another thing peacocking does is, it shows the women around you, wherever you’re doing your pickup that you’re not afraid of who you are and you’re not scared to be different. It shows them that you’re confident in your own skin and don’t really care much about…

What Other People Think !

Peacocking screams confidence, and women love it. Back to blogging, though. Again, how does peacocking apply in blogging? Well, if you think about it, you’ll realize that getting attention of your market is like…

Picking Up Women
in a Crowded Bar !

You can’t just look like everyone else. You can’t have just the same, old, boring blog design. There has to be something outrageous about you. Something that will get…

People’s Attention !

For example, my blog. Don’t tell me you are not curious when you first put your eye on my blog, because the way my blog is design and the way I put out my content is totally different from all the other blogs out there, though there are some people who do not like, but still…

The Percentage is Not
Going Against me !

Well… obviously, that’s easier said than done. There are a few things you can utilize to make sure you’re standing out from the rest of your market.

1. You Can Use Unique Design

Did you notice that a bunch of blogs out there look very similar? People see a guru using a certain theme, they immediately download it and start using it on their site without even customizing it much, hoping that since it works for that marketer…

It’ll Work for Them As Well !

It does for a time and then… people get desensitized. There are some thing you can do to avoid being like everyone else. Customize your theme. Make it your own. Make sure your graphics stand out and that there is something unique about your design. You can dress your site up to look…

Outrageously Good and
Shocking !

Anything. And I mean anything goes when it comes to getting yourself noticed. There are no rules to break, so just let your imagination take over.

2. You Can Utilize Some Good Branding

I watch a ton of TV shows and one of my favorite things in almost all of them are charters. If you look at “Lost,” for example, you’ll see that every single one of the main characters in is unique in some way. They all have a characteristic that aren’t shared by any other character, they speak, look and think different than…

Everyone Else
On the Show !

The reason they’re designed that way is for people like you and me to be able to pick out their favorites and identify with them. Another good example is an old series called…

Friends !

You have three guys and three girls. Everyone is unique and if you go and ask around, you’ll see that every single person you talk to will either like Phoebe, Ross, Rachel or one of the other three.

It’s No Accident.
It’s All Marketing !

(Just in case you’re wondering, my favorite Friends character is Joey. Love the guy.)

3. No Fear

Another thing you need to remember about is that fear is your enemy. You won’t be able to stand out if you’re constantly afraid about what people will think. Do you think it’s easy for a person who’s just learning to pick up women to use peacocking? Do you think it’s easy to get out there looking all funky? Of course it’s not, and…

It’s Scary
As Heck !

The point is that you need to overcome that fear, because peacocking works just like outrageous blogging works as well. If you have a crazy idea, go ahead and implement it. The worst thing that can happen is, your market won’t like it, in which case you’ll just do something else. You have nothing to lose and by making yourself easily noticeable and memorable…

You Have a Ton
to Gain !

“The Game” is a fantastic book when it comes to learning marketing and blogging skills. Peacocking is just one of the theories they talk about, and there are many more you can utilize…

Right now,
Right Today !

Before you do, however, go ahead and apply what I’ve just told you. See how well it works and you’ll be stoked to keep trying new things.

Stay Frosty,

The Bad Blogger

Also Known As “The Peacocking Blogger”